This is a late plug for Oliver Burkeman’s new year resolutions, which include (with copious references to the scientific research behind the advice): stop looking for your soulmate; reject positive thinking; make something and work with your hands; befriend your friends’ friends; and get a standing desk!
Here is his suggestion for all you internet and social networking addicts:
We’ve been worrying about information overload for millennia. “The abundance of books is distraction,” complained Seneca, who never had to worry about his Facebook privacy options (although he was ordered to commit ritual suicide by bleeding himself to death, so it’s swings and roundabouts). But it’s been a year of unprecedentedly panicky pronouncements on what round-the-clock digital connectedness might be doing to our brains – matched only by the ferocity with which the internet’s defenders fight back.
Yet as one team of neuroscientists pointed out, writing in the journal Neuron, we’ve been talking in misleading generalities. “Technology” isn’t good or bad for us, per se; neither is “the web”. Just as television can have positive or negative effects – Dora The Explorer seems to aid children’s literacy and numeracy, a study has suggested, while Teletubbies seems not to – what may well matter more is what we’re consuming online. The medium isn’t the only message.
The best way to impose some quality control on your digital life isn’t to quit Twitter, Facebook and the rest in a fit of renunciation, but to break the spell they cast. Email, social networking and blogs all resemble Pavlovian conditioning experiments on animals: we click compulsively because there might or might not be a reward – a new email, a new blog post – waiting for us. If you can schedule your email checking or web surfing to specific times of day, that uncertainty will vanish: new stuff will have accumulated, so there will almost always be a “reward” in store, and the compulsiveness should fade. Or use software such as the Firefox add-in Leechblock , which limit you to fixed-time visits to the sites you’re most addicted to.
Can you, as the blogger Paul Roetzer suggests, make it a habit to unplug for four hours a day? Three? Two? What matters most isn’t the amount of time, but who’s calling the shots: the ceaseless data stream, or you. Decide when to be connected, then decide to disconnect. Alternative metaphor: it’s a one-on-one fistfight between you and Mark Zuckerberg for control of your brain. Make sure you win.
Yes quite! :O/
Maybe you could start up cyber retreats.
@Mags,
In response to a recent comment you made (last post), i thought it might be good to mention the following person (including Wikipedia entry http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisabeth_Leseur
I don’t mean to mean any black-and-white comparisons, or make any suggestions at all, other than to read the article – and as with everything in general – pray (in, this case, in response to it), if you think, that is, the article is of any value.
What an interesting challenge! Unplug the PC for a given length of time each day. As a PC addict, this is a BIG challenge for me and one I am going to have to steel myself to. Nonetheless, like most addicts, I will ‘think about it’ haha. Seriously, though, the post does raise the point that the web and networking sites have, to a great extent, taken over lives and had a huge influence upon people worldwide.
Thanks Ed x You are very sweet.
What an amazing lady, I had not heard of her before. I am Interested enough to track down her writings, at some point. I Love the Martyr stories. It was the brave Agnes today! My own library is growing bigger and bigger, so I need to clear my back log first. She sounds far more of a martyr than I could ever be in her position. I could not give my life up so willingly, I have too many people yet to influence :O) .
I would however give my life 5 times over and over and over for each of my children. They are very special children, and one day will be very special Catholics!
“I have been astonished that men could die martyrs for their religion – I have shudder’d at it. I shudder no more. I could be martyr’d for my religion Love is my religion And I could die for that. I could die for you.” ~ by John Keats ~
I would however die for and to be with my Beloved x
My whole life through God has always turned the burdens into blessings, I have every faith He with Love will continue to do so.